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First Blogoversary

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Category : musings

In 3 days, September 30, to be exact, I realized that I would be celebrating my 1st anniversary using the WordPress platform.

How fast time flies. My first post last year was about an officemate whose home was ravaged by Super Typhoon Ondoy. The posts before this were imported from my Friendster blog.

I did not prepare anything for my WordPress blog’s first anniversary. No contest, no anything…just a silent celebration of the fact that blogging here afforded me not just a chance to update my blogsite more often, but also more friends, who I have learned to love dearly. I especially thank those I have already met: Fr. Felmar Fiel, who visited Ate Kara and me when Ate Kara was confined at the Asian Hospital, and who I met at another blogsite which we used to frequent. Fr. Felmar, who has become a very dear friend, was also the reason I met other fellow bloggers; Salbe who was the very reason for the existence of this dotcom, and who has proven to be a very good friend…of course, if Salbe is mentioned here, I have to mention two very dear ones, too, Kuhracha and Vajarl whose sunny personalities (yes, that’s true, you heard it from me even if I have to admit that their emo posts sometimes give you the wrong notion of who they really are. ha!) endeared themselves to me; and Duking , Shea and Marvin who I met during our fun videoke session at home; and of course, Labs, a good looking emotero who I met during my last birthday.

There are others, too, who have become good friends, not just because they are the very patient ones who visit this site even though I have nothing really earth-shattering thing to tell, but also because they email from time to time, and these moments gave me the opportunity to see who they really are behind those blog posts I get to read. I am not going to mention them anymore because some of the things we emailed about were sometimes sensitive issues. You know who you are, anyway.

And I thank my husband, Bong, who has been very supportive…to the point that sometimes, especially during those times when I am too busy to answer comments in some of my blog posts, is the one who mans this site. ‘Taumbahay, ‘ika nga.

In all those twelve months, I have come to meet a few bloggers…and in the months to come, I hope to meet some of you too, especially those who are planning to come home in the next few months.

There are those who came and just left a comment so I could visit their sites, too. That’s ok. I visited theirs, sayang naman ang effort nila kung di ko sila bibisitahin. Still, If your blogsite is in my blogroll, that means I genuinely enjoy reading your blogposts, though I don’t always leave a comment.

I did not prepare anything for my WordPress blog’s first anniversary. No contest, no anything…But if you want to greet me, or MAKE ME A FANSIGN, that would be very much appreciated. Wink



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Longer

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Category : musings

I was in the middle of researching for a speech I am writing for our President when I decided to listen to some music. The sounds one would hear from where I am in the office are purely those of fingers tapping on the computer keyboard. I thought it was too silent, ergo, the need for music.

Choosing what to play was a dilemma. I looked into my jazz folders and later chose the Jazz to be with you 2 album. The first song was Babyface’s version of Longer.

I know, Longer, as sung and written by Dan Fogelberg, is a very nice song but I never really appreciated what it meant or what it had to say until I listened to it a while ago:

Longer than there’ve been fishes in the ocean
Higher than any bird ever flew
Longer than there’ve been stars up in the heavens
I’ve been in love with you

Stronger than any mountain cathedral
Truer than any tree ever grew
Deeper than any forest primeval
I am in love with you

I’ll bring fire in the winters
You’ll send showers in the springs
We’ll fly through the falls and summers
With love on our wings

Through the years as the fire starts to mellow
Blurring lines in the book of our lives
Though the binding cracks and the pages start to yellow
I’ll be in love with you

Longer than there’ve been fishes in the ocean
Higher than any bird ever flew
Longer than there’ve been stars up in the heavens
I am in love with you, oh
I am in love with you, oh
I am in love with you…

As I was listening to it, I couldn’t help but remember my conversation with Bong a few nights ago as we were preparing to sleep.

Out of the blue, he just asked me, “Do you think there will come a time when we would just lose our feelings for each other?” I was puzzled why he suddenly asked me that, but I also pondered on it. What I told him was this, that I believe we wouldn’t lose our feelings of love for each other as long as we stay true to each other, we are honest, we respect each other’s feelings, and God is always in our midst.

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Now, a day short of our fifth year as a married couple, I remember vividly that day when we stood in front of God and the people who love us. Bong and I decided we would write our own vows, and not get them from the ones prescribed in those misalettes you download from the internet or the one you buy from the church, but our very own promises of love for each other. I remember poring over my own vows and making sure that I didn’t forget to bring it to the church.

The moment came when we were going to say them. And as one would have known, Bong forgot to write his. So while holding my hand and looking intently at me, he just said whatever came to his mind. As for me, I read through what I wrote. While I am a writer, I am not exactly a good speaker so that piece of paper was very important to me.

Looking back, I can not exactly remember what his promises to me were. But even without those promises being immortalized in my mind, in my heart, his loving actions are.

And to answer his question, I quote “Longer”

Through the years as the fire starts to mellow
Blurring lines in the book of our lives
Though the binding cracks and the pages start to yellow
I’ll be in love with you

Yup, dad, we will grow old, the passion will probably be lessened, there’ll be arguments here and there, and yeah, the pages will turn yellow, but I will be in love with you.

Happy 5th year to us…

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