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Chic-boy’s not so chickboy response

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Category : life outside work, musings

A few nights ago, on Monday, December 12, to be exact, while browsing Facebook, I came across a post about a customer who wrote a very emotional albeit funny “break-up” letter with her favorite fastfood restaurant, Chic-Boy. I was immediately drawn to it because Chic-boy has become my favorite resto, too. Anyway, the author of that post, Sigrid Andrea Bernardo, apparently a writer, director and actress, narrated what happened to her on November 21 at the Chic-Boy Timog branch.

After reading it, I immediately thought of the Cebu Lechon Liempo meal waiting for me on our dining table, courtesy of Daddy Bong. He knows how I so love Chic-Boy that a few nights even, he asked if I’d be ok with just eating at Chic-Boy whenever we’d go out on dates. I didn’t hesitate when I said yes because really, their Cebu Lechon Liempo is just to die for, IMO. I was seriously debating within if I would eat it knowing that my husband lovingly went out of his way to buy me that pasalubong. It was already nearing midnight, but before coming to my final decision, I decided to read what Chic-Boy in its FB fanpage, had to say. And what they said there stunned me. But instead of publicly telling them what I thought, I decided to write them a private message instead. Here’s what I wrote:

I decided to message you in private since I don’t want to be just another person who wants to be embroiled in a controversy.

I love Chicboy. I have loved it eversince I first tasted the lechon liempo and sisig meal in Cityplace Divisoria two weeks ago. Since then, I have declared I would patronize it whenever I see a branch nearby. And since then, my husband, knowing how I love it, has been bringing me pasalubong from chicboy. Last week, we ate at Chicboy central mall in Biñan. He asked me if he could bring to a chicboy everytime we would have a date and I happily said yes. Tonight when he came home, he had another pasalubong for me. From Chicboy. It is now waiting for me on the dining table.

I have to admit, when I read the post, I thought of throwing it away and told myself I would never eat there anymore, not so much my doubt on the food’s cleanliness and fitness for consumption as the way chicboy is handling the whole controversy. You guys should learn about crisis management. It was clear that the author of that post only wanted you to apologize but no one, according to her did so. In fact, you went the other way (around) and showed defiance. The author was clearly pissed because she went to the place to enjoy your food but instead she ate something you can’t deny wasn’t there in the same way you can’t prove it was placed there on purpose to discredit you.

Now you are even threatening to sue her for libel because you were emboldened by people who said they would support you. You havve the money and means and maybe even clout to wage war against her. You will probably win the lawsuit but I hope you will also be able to prove yourselves and all that you did not have a liability and that that girl was really just out to get you and she was indeed being paid by somebody to ruin your reputation because if you can’t, then you will be judged accordingly.

I hope you will really do everything to make sure that sanitation is of great importance, and most especially, that you value your customers. You are not perfect so I hope you also know that the author might just have been telling the truth and in so doing, simply wanted an apology which you denied (apparently.) After all, I am pretty sure you know these things sometimes really happen.

In the end, I will still eat my husband’s chicboy pasalubong to me this evening. Masarap naman talaga ang chicboy. But I also hope you will learn how to deal with problems like this properly. And blaming the customer is not one of them especially when there is another customer who experienced almost the same thing in another branch.

If you will ask me if I believe that girl and what she said she experienced, then yes, I believe she was saying the truth. But would I stop eating at chicboy? No. I will still patronize chicboy, but with the hope that it will learn to do things correctly. And I hope it will start by reaching out to the disgruntled customer and apologizing as you should have done in the first place.

More power to you and I hope this incident will only make your resolve to keep sanitation and cleanliness, as well as good customer service your top priorities at all times. Thank you and Merry Christmas!

After sending this message to the Chicboy FB Fanpage, I went to eat Daddy Bong’s Chicboy pasalubong. Later, I decided to check my FB and lo and behold! Chicboy responded to my message. In it, Chicboy wrote:

Hello Kaye, thank you for your message. The incident as she claimed happened Nov 21. It is our policy to first apologize for any untoward incident or inconvenience we have caused our customers. She said in her FB post that she even went back that same night to talk to the franchisee. If she was not able to talk to the franchisee, why didn’t she write a letter to the franchisee? Why didn’t she write a letter to the franchisor? Why didn’t she text or call our Hotline. The complaint number is printed on our receipt? We are wondering why it took her 3 weeks before she decided to write about it in FB?

We are not threatening to sue her. We will sue her to find out the real story.

Thank you and Have a Merry Christmas too.

I thought the reply from Chicboy was not just defensive, it even reeked of arrogance, so I decided to reply to their message. I wrote:

If you will look at her post, she said that three weeks have passed without any word from you. I think she was clearly expecting an answer, a reaction from you which she did not get after complaining verbally that day, prompting her to post the incident on facebook. One thing I have learned from being a PR practitioner myself, is to always respond to a crisis the earliest possible time. You question her inability to file a formal complaint with your office yet you cannot say what you resolved to do after she verbally complained about her food. I think you should realize that not all customers would write letters of complaint, nor text or call your hotline to report what happened. You should realize that the easiest way for people to vent their frustrations is through social media. Never mind if it happened yesterday, a week before, three weeks even. Social networking sites have made it possible for things to go viral in just a few seconds. Yours is an example.

In any case, if you think she was amiss in doing what you thought was the correct thing to do, you were also amiss in that you let the problem sit there without realizing you were leaving it to hatch on its own. You were not proactive enough to solve the problem once it presented itself. Now, what you are doing is damage control, so to speak, by attacking back. You probably thought that girl would be content seething privately and was taken aback when you realized that like you, she wouldn’t take things sitting down. If, on the other hand, you will say you did not know about the problem until that post and the photos appeared on facebook, then the branch manager where the incident happened, has a lot of explaining to do, or else, you did not train your people to handle crises well enough, in which case, this proves to be a lesson difficult enough to learn from.

Also, you have been telling everyone that it is your policy to apologize the moment something goes wrong, yet nowhere in your page/profile does it say that the staff of the said branch clearly apologized for what happened. Saying it is one thing as opposed to actually doing it. Please don’t get me wrong. I am not antagonising you. I am just trying to give an alternative way of looking at things without being just overly critical. I really hope you will be able to get through this with everything still intact. And if you want to know, I enjoyed my chicboy dinner a while ago very much. As usual, the rice was cooked perfectly (believe me, mang inasal wouldn’t stand a chance! And I ate one just last Friday.) and the lechon was so tasty as usual.

Oh and if you want to know why I am suddenly very interested in this aside from the fact that I love Chicboy so much, it is because I am a customer myself who would maybe do the same if “properly” provoked. that is also why I explained to you how I see what happened.

 

After that, and until now, I never heard from Chic-boy. At the time, they hadn’t filed a case (tho I really don’t know if they have filed one already) against the author of the FB post, but they no longer responded to me. Maybe because they didn’t think I was worth responding to after all. Haha. Thing is, the way I see things, this is purely a PR crisis. Had they known how to respond properly to the customer, they might have kept this under wraps.  I also found their accusation against the author absurd. Telling everybody that the customer might have been hired to do a demolition job against the restaurant, or simply was trying to get attention for herself was plain dumb and lame. Where else in the world is the customer always not right? In this country of course! and when you complain about bad service in whatever form, you get branded as publicity-hungry or a hired demolition expert, or worse, you get sued for trying to stand up for your rights.

Going into the F&B business is really not a walk in the park. However, more than that, I think we can all learn a thing or two about customer service with the story above. I hope all have learned their lesson well.

 

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Rock the Riles for Human Rights

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Category : life outside work, musings

The International Human Rights Day is celebrated every December 10th. (That’s a very special day to me because that’s also my hubby, Bong’s birthday!) In the Philippines, there is a volunteer group  called RockEd Philippines which provides venues for alternative education on today’s most pressing current issues especially those involving the Eight Millenium goals, and of course, human rights.

RockEd (Rocking Society through Alternative Education)  Philippines has been, for years, providing alternative education in various places which include, among others, bars, restaurants, soccer fields, art galleries, and the like. They do these through music, the arts, poetry, fashion, graphic design, literature, film, etc. The main movers/convenors of the group belong to the who’s who in the Philippine society. Its founder is and Executive Director is Gang Badoy.

This year, to celebrate the World Human Rights Day, RockEd is staging the 7th Rock the Riles Concert on December 11, 2011 at 8 MRT Stations. The 8 simultaneous concerts will feature more than 80 bands/performers. the best thing about this, is they are for free! There is much to know about Human Rights, and there is no better way to find out more about them than, IMO, attending a concert, having fun with family and/or friends, and not paying for it. Right?

I think it’s good that organizations are doing everything to educate especially the young on current pressing issues by using alternative forms of education. I remember attending the MTV Exit Concert against Human Trafficking last October 29. So many young people attended it, had fun listening to the country’s top bands perform, and knew more about what human trafficking really constitutes. These days, classrooms really aren’t the only places young people learn so it’s a good thing that more of these kinds are being done now.

Then again, these concerts aren’t just for the youth. They are also for the young-at-heart so it would be nice, too, to bring that family outing to the MRT stations this Sunday. Smile

According to Gang’s tumblr site, the 8 stations and their performers are as follow:

 

TAFT STATION

Tanya Markova, Giniling Festival, Stonefree, Soapdish, Above Zero, Wika, Heavy Heavies, Hatankaru, AJKA, Soundvent, Eevee, Letter Day Story, Kaligta, Kilos, Circa, Not So Fast, Philia, and Ciudad Tribu — Rocking vs Hunger.

CUBAO STATION

Noel Cabangon, Paramita, Hijo, Hilera, Turbo Goth, Camerawalls, FMD, Top Junk, Chongkeys, Ganhava, Alex in Wonderland, Miko Pepito, Faintlights, Allecia, Nityalila, OG Sacred, Midsummer, LTNS, and Toyo. Presented by Dakila — Rocking for Global Trade and Development.

SHAW STATION

Paolo Santos, Silent Sanctuary, Peryodiko, Duster, Kala, Gracenote, Kai Honasan, and Playphonics — Rocking for Education.

AYALA STATION

Radioactive Sago Project, UpDharmaDownm Encounters With A Yeti, Musical O, Sleepwalk Circus, Hidden Nikki, The Charmes, Not Another Boy Band, Dr.Strangeluv, and Akasha. Presented by Terno Recordings — Rocking for the Environment.

BONI STATION

Flippin’ Soul Stompers, Collie Herb, Good Leaf, Tarsius, The Go Signals, Fingertrap, Jeepney Joyride, The Strangeness, Nanay Mo, Tirso Cruise Three, FilterKeen, Kevin’s Express, and Big Band Groove — Rocking for Gender Equality.

BUENDIA STATION

Intolerant, Reklamo, Bad Burn, Odat, Trapeze, Penguin, Pull It Surprise, Sirens, Save Me Hollywood, Jejaview, Htachbanko, Around the Metro, Lady Ransom, Jensen Gomez, Archievals, Harlequin Carnival, and Sleep — Rocking vs HIV/AIDS, Malaria, and Preventable Diseases.

QUEZON AVE STATION

CinemAlexis Film Showing — Rocking for Maternal Health.

NORTH AVE STATION

Mayonnaise, Tonight We Sleep, Hansom, Subscapular, Sirens, Chris Cantanda, Shoulder State, Lights in Transit, Arcadia, PileDriver, Wilderness, and Twin Lobster. Presented by Mary Moon Productions — Rocking for Children’s Health.

 

Happy International Human Rights Day! And of course, a very happy birthday to my one and only Bong. But this is definitely another story Wink

 

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Say hey, Teacher A!

Category : family, life outside work, Motherhood and parenting, musings

A friend’s blogpost about a teacher from her 9-year old brother’s school has become viral. In it, she criticizes the computer teacher for giving an assignment that directed her grade three students to access their facebook accounts or make one if they don’t have one; search for a particular page, like the page, and then like an entry in that page’s pageant. The entry happens to be the teacher’s daughter participating in that contest.

Anyway, the sheet of paper with the printed instructions regarding the assignment also says that liking that page may only be done from November 30 to December 1 and that it will be part of the students’ graded activity on those days, and will be checked from December 1 to 2 only.

I found out about this when I saw Ayla’s twitter status about the assignment last November 29. Of course, having had countless instances when I had to call the attention of my children’s teachers and schools, I know how it feels when they, supposedly paragons of integrity choose to violate their own values and impose the same on others, and worse still, on their students.  And that was what happened.

What I can’t understand is why the teacher, even knowing it was a grave mistake on her part, and after offering an apology, still tried to save face by saying that the assignment was an exercise at finding out if the (innocent, unsuspecting) students could follow instructions. She went on to say that what she meant by her instructions on the paper was for the students to ask the help of their parents in setting up an FB account, or to just ask to use their parents’ FB account. Duh, those instructions were certainly not written on the paper, so I am thinking this teacher expected these 9-year olds to read between the lines? C’mon!

She also said it was graded so her students’ and their parents’ efforts won’t go to waste. Duh.

Everybody certainly commits mistakes. We’re humans, after all, and that teacher was not exempt from being foolish from time to time. But to insult one’s intelligence by making everybody believe this was what she intended, is certainly unacceptable. The excuses this teacher came up with were not just lame, they were downright stupid. Why don’t we just call a spade, a spade? She already apologized. That should have been the end of it. She apologised profusely especially since she was thoughtless enough to sacrifice other people’s interest but she should have stopped there. She shouldn’t have given all those excuses to try and save her face because it did more damage to an already mutilated, trampled upon character.

But then, a lot has been said about this. What I found compelling to write about were comments I read which said that my blogger friend, Ayla, shouldn’t have written at once about the incident, that she should have just brought up the matter with the teacher and the school, and not posted it on her site for everybody to feast on. Moreover, she shouldn’t have “exploited” the teacher’s daughter by posting her photos in her site as proof of the teacher’s wrong doing. Wrong, wrong, wrong comments.

I say whoever wrote those comments should have also thought about a lot of things.

In my experience, just bringing it up with the teacher, the adviser, and even the principal, a lot of times, does not suffice. Take my case for example. My daughter Kara’s adviser when she was in first year high school asked all of them to submit to him a recordable CD each, and for each group in the class, a manila paper, without explaining to all what these requirements were for. (The school has 5 sections per year level) How much do a CD and  manila paper cost? I think you’d agree with me if I say it’s almost negligible especially since the kids are in a private sectarian school, which means money, most of the time, is not an issue. Besides, you can buy a CD for less than ten pesos, and a piece of manila paper for even a third of a CD’s cost. I can’t remember how I found out about this, but I remember asking my daughter what those were for, and when she disclosed they weren’t told what they were for, I immediately sought an appointment with the principal. There, we all found out that those things were not sanctioned by the school and that it was actually illegal for the teacher to require these from the students, no matter how cheap they might be.

And how about that instance when a math teacher who was quiz master of the Math contest in the school, wanted to turn a blind eye on a contestant who cheated with her answer? If not for my daughter’s conscience, (my daughter happened to be a watcher during the contest) that matter would not have been brought up and the teacher and student would not have been made to answer for that. It just bothered me, too, that when Kara told the teacher about what happened, the teacher asked them not to say anything about it. Since she could not just forget about it, she narrated to me what happened. I called the attention of the school and told the directress how this undermined my daughter’s confidence and trust on the teacher.

Moreover, very recently, my daughter’s social studies teacher gave her a very low mark because in his own words, Kara failed to submit her notebook on time, and that practically constituted the whole social studies grade. (The notebook was graded as part of her seat works grade, which meant it was preposterous for him to have based her grade on it) When I sought his audience and asked Kara to join us, we found out Kara was the only one who submitted her notebook in advance, which the teacher failed to note, and not finding her notebook among those who were submitted on the day he told the students to submit them, he assumed she was late in her submission. I wrote Kara’s adviser a lengthy letter venting my frustrations, even talking with her recently where the adviser admitted she already brought the subject matter up to the principal.  Until now, even if I already went through the usual channels, that issue has not been resolved (tho I still plan to talk with the Principal one of these days.)

These are just three of the recent things that happened involving different teachers. I have other stories involving other teachers, but prefer not to mention them here anymore. (Those teachers are no longer with the school, thank God, though the school did not fire them.)

So what am I saying? That there are times when you should really speak up. Looking back, if maybe I vented my frustrations in my blog site aside from talking directly with the teachers and the school administrators, and then letting them know about what I wrote, I might have sent them more clearly my message, that they should ensure that their teachers’ integrity is not compromised, because the issues I bring up with the school seem to be recycled year after year, in different forms. Maybe they’d have been more mindful of how their teachers conduct themselves especially when they are in school, in front of the class. Maybe they’d have taken me more seriously. Now, Ayla’s blogpost being read by more would surely ensure that the school stays vigilant.

Which brings me to the next point. Had Ayla not written about what happened (like what I have done in the past) this matter wouldn’t have gotten the attention it deserved. I can’t understand why people objected to Ayla’s post, telling her she was unduly subjecting the little girl to humiliation and exploitation when the very mother of that child already subjected her to humiliation and exploitation in the first place. It was not Ayla who said she was going to do everything, make “magic” even, to secure a win in that contest. The mother and the organizers of the contest certainly did not see anything wrong with publishing the children’s photos in Facebook, I don’t know why it would mean any different now. But then Ayla already took out the photo so this should at least give them assurance she was not out to exploit the little girl. She only used those photos because they were posted in Facebook for the world to see. I feel for that little girl and pity her if only because I also have young children and the thought would never occur to me to peddle them like housewares on some stage or even in social networking sites.

Next, it’s also not correct to say that she was seeking publicity. Hello. Haven’t we all forgotten it was the teacher who sought publicity in the first place by asking her innocent students to like that page at all cost? While Ayla’s post most surely earned fame, it still is not correct to say that that was what she sought when she wrote that blog post. It’s not her fault, too, if some of those who left comments in that blog post chose to forget the issues she presented and decided to use foul words to air their side.

I hope this latest incident becomes a big lesson to all especially to teachers who have been given the very sensitive task of molding young minds. I remember when Kara was much younger. Every time I needed to write the teacher for corrections, I would have to gently tell her that her teachers are good teachers, but sometimes, they commit mistakes, too, and we can only help them realize those so they don’t commit them again. I had to do this because I did not want her to antagonize her teachers and I wanted her to still respect them. But most of all, I wanted her to realize that it’s ok to stand up for your rights. If you don’t, no one might.

 

 

 

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I am closing this post for comments since I wrote this not to gain popularity myself (I am a journ graduate, and even if this does not have anything to do with what I wrote, some irresponsible people might think I am doing this in order to gain popularity since that’s supposedly what mass comm majors do. Duh) but to say my take on the issue. I am also not linking this to Ayla’s post since I don’t want to be accused of seeking more readers. I don’t have political ambitions, anyway. I am just a concerned mother who was alarmed by what happened, and who can definitely relate to her experience.

Oh and btw, like some people who left their comment in the blog post,  I believe the issue will later be twisted in favor of the unethical teacher. Hello poor vs rich, teachers-don’t-get-too-much, corruption-in-DepEd, cyber-bullying, etc. issues! I am expecting these would further blur what the whole thing was originally about. I am hopeful this post will help correct those.

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