Gawad Kalinga has been having its monthly get-togethers for its partners since May, I think. But last Wednesday, July 7, I decided to attend the Builders’ Night for the first time at the Rockwell Tent in Makati because the meet’s theme is Gawad Kalinga’s Child and Youth Development Programs, a cause which is closest to my heart since our Company is supporting its CYD program via Tambayani in its GK Manggahan Kawayanan Village.
(Background: Tambayani or Tambayan ng mga Bayani is a community-based youth and education program that benefits both in- and out-of-school youth. It’s inspired by a mission of “breeding heroes (or bayani) through education. Simply put, it’s a place where the future heroes of this country could converge, at the same time, it’s a program which would allow them to learn so they could grow up to be true leaders and heroes of this country.)
The Company-sponsored Tambayani in GK Manggahan Kawayanan is one of my projects. Construction of the structure is set to be finished in September this year so it’s also one of the things I am really excited about.
Anyway, the speakers that night included preacher Bo Sanchez, and former Agriculture Secretary, now a GK Champion, Cito Lorenzo.
I went there excited with the prospect of hearing Bo Sanchez speak because I receive daily Kerygma readings, and Kerygma is also one of the two organizations I support with a very small monthly contribution. I wasn’t disappointed, Bo Sanchez did deliver and his talk, albeit short, had a big impact on me, and I guess, the people present, too.
But what blew me over was Cito Lorenzo. I didn’t know much about him other than he was a former cabinet official (who was later implicated in the Agri scam) But listening to him, you would realize how his self-exile in the US has truly humbled him, and in his own words, afforded him some mental and moral introspection.
Below, I am including some of the things that struck me while listening to these two great inspirational speakers.
From Bo Sanchez:
-We can predict our future simply by analyzing what comes out of our mouths because words have power. (If everything that comes out of our mouths are negative things, then we can be sure that negative things will come our way. Simple but true.)
-Every time GK builds a home, a village, it builds hope, a future for this country. The work of GK is continuous, and that is why we can say that our future is brighter than our past.
-Even if we have made mistakes as an individual, and as a nation, we can erase those mistakes and then start all over again, just like those magic slates we used to draw on (which now have become magnetic slates) when we were still kids.
-We are not defined by our mistakes. We are defined by our destiny, and our destiny is actually something we can control if we have the right mindset.
-We have a God that wants to bless us. Problem is, a lot of people have this self-hatred spirituality. (He proceeds to tell of a man who prays and says the following: Lord, I am a man who doesn’t deserve your love. No, Lord, I am a little worm who doesn’t deserve Your love. No, Lord, I am not a worm, I am the bacteria in the worm and I don’t deserve Your Love. No Lord, I am not the bacteria in the worm…I am the virus that lives in the bacteria in the worm, and I don’t deserve Your love.) Yes, if you’ll think about it, it’s funny how we sometimes make ourselves too little in God’s eyes, and so, we miss the whole point…that God is so generous, He wants to bless us with His love, and He wants to bless our lives.
Bottomline is, we have to be open to receive God’s blessings if we want to experience His generosity.
Now, Cito Lorenzo. He spoke quite measuredly, giving the feeling that his experiences have really slowed him down, and that nothing mattered but the task at hand…that of rebuilding lives, not just homes through Gawad Kalinga.
From him, I got the following insights:
-True wealth is measured not in the number of zeros added to our bank accounts, the honors we have received when wearing the titles, nor the material things one collects; but the number of sincere and genuine friends one makes.
-What counts in life (are these): family, faith and country.
-As a leader, every person is not a statistic to be used but a human being…and regardless of his or her station in life he or she deserves our attention, compassion and concern by bringing out the best in him/her as an individual. For it is in building people that we truly build our nation.
-“Given the potentials and the goal of self-reliance, what can we as businessmen, professionals, and civic leaders do to help?
First, we must challenge the boundaries that keep our young people poor; to break through the glass ceiling that has conditioned him to believe that his or her highest aspiration is defined by the shanty that he lives in. Second, we must develop an entrepreneurial spirit among the youth – to inspire him to create value by making something from nothing. And lastly, we have to allow them to aim for greatness, to have pride and faith in self because God made no man second class in this world.
In a more concrete form, we can do this by increasing the scholarships for our poor but deserving students to at least 20% of the student population in the best universities here in Metro Manila and in the provinces.
Second, we must train teachers, mentor graduates, and assist in their dreams to be business owners rather than employees.
Third, we must encourage more business-inclined youth of our leading universities to embark on more “social entrepreneurship” projects that include a major component that shall benefit the poor.
Fourth, those of us with the means can partner with financial institutions to provide the needed working capital to make them succeed.
Most importantly, they must learn that business is about making sure that no one is left behind.”
(ok, it took me a few days before I could write this post because I had to transcribe the speech which I recorded, but I found out just yesterday that the speech is now posted here. haha! I totally forgot that this is now the internet era. Oh well.)
A lot of the things Cito said, we already know. But hearing them again actually awakened in me a deeper sense of responsibility for these kids who are going to be left behind when we are no longer here ourselves. How do we effectively train them to do better than us? The answer is not yet too clear, given the fact that many have become apathetic to the cause of educating our youth. After all, the harsh realities of our daily lives have taken over most of us. But while there are still organizations like Gawad Kalinga, and their partners—individuals, organizations, and corporations alike, who continue painstakingly the work of nation-building, I believe hope is not lost. And yes, our future is brighter than our past.





Base ako
bumeys ka? petiks mode ba?
napressure ako sayo kahapon eh. meron pang amoy paa…yabang komo may bagong post. hmp.
Maaga lamang talaga akong pumasok sa trabaho, hindi pa sumisikat ang araw, halos tapos ko na ang daily tasks ko.
Hindi mo katulad, late lagi.
Magbago na. Thunder ka na
kapal ng muka nito. e kasingkapal ng muka mo yung driver na dapat, magkaron lang ng 10 pasahero e aalis na. pero hindi, talagang petiks siya, pagnagkaron na ng 10 pasahero, dun pa lang sasakay sa jeep niya. saka pa maniningil kuning kuning at magsusukli. saka magpapaandar ng sasakyan, bago kami makaalis sa terminal, nakapuno na halos ang jeep. tapos pag nagpatakbo, parang pagong. hmp!
anyare? baket ako nagexplain?
wait lang kuya kulisap nireserve na namin ang beys na ito nina mam kuhrach at kuya bong!
Kuyaaaaaaaaaa Bonggggggggggggggggggggg si kuya kulisap daw ang beys! huhuhuhuhu
hahahhha! hinahanap nga kita kanina kaya nagulat akong si ipis ang andito at pumepetiks. ayun balik na siguro sa work.
ako din balik work na ulit.
gusto ko sanang makibase agad kaso di ko pa nababasa…. mas nauuna akong magbasa kesa mag comment.
haha. second base.
e pano yan, nagcomment ka na kahit di mo pa nababasa. hehehe.
nainggit ako kay kuya kulisap eh!…hahahaha, sabi ko bakit sila lang..pwede namang gawin ko yon…hehe
hope is not lost, yeah right! as long as there’s someone like you ms. kaye who continue to believed that we can change our future, yes! we can.. Aja!
i was once a reader of Kergyma, way back in highschool, subscriber kasi ang school namin ng kerygma, yon nga lang pagbalik ko, wala na…wala na akong mahanap na bagong issue sa library.
marami tayong dapat maniwala na pwede pang maging maganda ang future natin, at lalong mas marami pa tayong pwedeng gumawa ng paraan para mabago ang future natin.
I get daily kerygma reflections. yun usually ang binabasa ko sa umaga for reflection.
Kaya ka puro reflection, manalamin ka na lang, tas kanta ka Reflection.
Awayan na.
hala! naghahanap ka talaga ng away kuya noh?
sanay na ko diyan. kelangan nya maexercise ang brain niya kaya pabalik balik yan dito.
unang una, nananalamin talaga ako. at maganda ang nakikita ko sa salamin.
ikalawa, kaya ko talagang kantahin ang Reflection. At kinakanta ko yun.
me angal?
eto sayo
Si Kara ang nakikita mo sa salamin, kaya maganda.
Nakakanta mo ang reflection pwede na, parang Salbakuta, ganyan.
Maraming may mabubuting kalooban na maraming magagandang plano. Ang problema nga lang, hanggang kailan?
Continuity.
Kung tayo pang mga matatanda na ay titigil sa pagtulong para maiangat ang kaalaman ng mga kabataan, sino pa ang magkukusa? Ang mga hayop, ang mga halaman, ang mga kulisap o ipis? Kaya ba nila? Marahil.
Kaye, I hate you so much.
Gawad Kalinga volunteer ako.
ok, maayos na comment muna.
I agree, maraming mabubuting kalooban na puro plano lang talaga. ang dapat, aksyon na maayos at may kwenta. that’s what GK and its partners are doing. And I am proud to be one of them.
GK volunteer ka pala. binabati kita.
ayhetchu somatz din, kulipis.
ahm…baka masunog ako kaya di na lang ako magcocomment tungkol kay bo sanchez. basta ang alam ko lang sa kanya, dati siyang mahilig sa seks tapos biglang nagbago ata tas naging mabuting anak na ng diyos. tama ba ko? lols!
pero yung kay cito lorenzo, di ba eto ‘yung dapat na magpapasabogtungkol sa fertilizer scam pero biglang nawala sa national scene? mabait na tao raw ‘to eh. pero dahil sa sobrang corrupt ng bureaucracy, bumigay sa trabaho bilang da chief.
yun lang naman. gandang umaga mami kaye!
yep, he goes around telling that story naman…as proof that even those who think they’re not “worthy” are capable of change.
yep, that’s cito lorenzo…mabait nga, at bumigay dahil sa corruption at bureaucracy… ewan ko ba sa gobyerno…kahit na maayos kang tao, lalamunin ka ng sistema. i am hoping, though, that things would change now that we have a new administration…
aba, lio, ang aga mo dito ngayon ah. buhay na buhay! petiks mode sa sgv? hahaha
nagnanakaw lang ng bandwidth mami kaye. epistaxis na ko sa training namin. putek, para akong it programmer! script script script! hahahay…
hahaha! epistaxis talaga? di pwedeng nosebleed na lang? hahahahha! ikaw talagang bata ka!
at gk din pala ang socio-civic project dito sa sgv. so baka maghakot din ako ng mga buhangin one time. kitakits na lang mami kaye. haha.
hahaha! sige maghakot ka ng buhangin…ay! bilangin mo na lang pala ang buhangin. hahaah!
at hindi ko na ma-access ang website ko dito. blocked due to sexual content daw. amp! tanggalin ko na nga ‘yung mejakol exam pic dun. lols!
A for effort para sa tiyaga mong i-transcribe ito para sa amin ate kaye!
yehey! yehey!
Si Bro. Bo nga pala yung sa Kerygma (nung mapagusapan natin ito sa FB ay iniisip ko kung sino si Bro Bo siya pala yun) binabasa ko ito sa library namin nung highschool ako.
Naalala ko lang yung post ko about Words. Tama si Bro Bo powerful ang words and are empowered kapag ginamit natin ang mga words to bless, edify, and encourage others.
yehey, Hope! when life hurts most…Hope kasi sabi niya nga we have a God, a very Big GOD! yehey! dami ko relate sa post mong ito ate kaye! yehey!
Kay sir Cito naman yung family, faith and country
at tsaka yung dapat no one will be left behind! yehey!
Pangarap kong maging isang motivational speaker ate kaye kagaya nila!
Yehey! Si Francis Kho (Ko, Kong) I forgot his name magaling din siya hindi pa ba siya naimbitahan ng GK?
be blessed ate kaye balik ako!
BASEEEEEEE!
haha! huli na nang marealize kong nakapost din sa net. hahahah!
And I also believe we have a Big God. that’s actually what i tell myself when we’re beset with problems. we have a bigger God compared to all our problems put together.
Yep, that’s Francis Kong is also a good motivational speaker…
late ka na sa pag-base, Pong! hahaha!
Ate kaye hinahanap ko yung thread natin sa FB ipopost ko sana sa koment box mo paraproof na kami ni mam kuhrach ang base ahahahah
Yap tama nga si Francis Kong iyon naging guest speaker siya nun sa Teacher’s Convention sa SMX magaling din siya.
Si Bro Bo yata naging speaker narin siya sa Teacher’s Convention sa Pampanga.
Muntik ko ng nakita pala si ate kaye sa tv sambablog!
Be blessed!
hindi pwedeng mapunta ang FB dito, pong. hahahah! better luck next time na lang.
at mabuti na lang di mo ko nakita sa tv, kundi mahahalatang mukang gutom na ko kasi duling na ata ako nun. hehehe. kaya pagkatapos na pagkatapos ng program, umalis na kami ni Bong para makakain sa sosyal na powerplant mall. hahaah!
I love you Bo Sanchez.
Dear Salbehe,
I love you too. Why don’t you come see me one day. Maybe I can help you.
Love, Bo
hay…alala ko ang email exchanges…na hindi mo na sinagot…musta si C****? hihihi!
Si Carlo? Sus pwede natin syang pag-usapan dahil mula nung ininbayt nya ako sa prayer meeting ay kinalimutan ko na sya. Kung ininbayt nya ako sa motel edi sana pareho kaming masaya. Lol!

salbe!!! ikaw talagang bata ka!!!
We are not defined by our mistakes. We are defined by our destiny, and our destiny is actually something we can control if we have the right mindset.
>>> and if we ask GOD to give us wisdom
yes, and that right mindset comes from the Wisdom that God gives us.
momi kaye. pasensya na. ang haba. di ko binasa.. gusto ko lang magparamdam. haymishyu!
sige paramdam ka. hamishu na din, kuh. mashado ka nang inaalila. nawala bigla sa uso ang petiks mode. hahaha!
napasama na rin ako as volunteer sa pag gawa ng GK Village.(jackn’jill village project)sa taguig.yun yata yung first time na napalaban ako ng paguran pero hindi man lang nayamot sa nangyayari.iba pala yung pakiramdam na ikaw naman yung nagbibigay.kahit kapos ka rin,nagmumukha kang meron.
salamat miss kaye,sa effort ng mga volunteers na gaya mo at ng lahat ng taga GK,sana isang araw,wala nang filipinong titira sa ilalim ng tulay.
masaya naman kasi during the build. kami when we had our build at GK Sunshineville in Las Piñas, bawat araw, may assembly muna ang kapitbahayan, may prayers and then morning exercise at mga sayawan pa. hahaa! masaya ang mga tao dun.
sana nga talagang isang araw, wala nang pinoy na titira sa mga ilalim ng tulay, o tabi ng riles ng tren…
I subscribe din sa Kerygma ni Bro. Bo. Ang galing ng kanyang mga books & teachings. Salamat sa pag share nito Kaye at sa pagsabi mo ng:
“I believe hope is not lost. And yes, our future is brighter than our past.”
Maraming mabubuting tao sa mundo na nag-iisip na tulungan ang mga Pinoy na nangangailangan(W. Buffet, B. Gates,…they are giving their billions to help the needy people. I have a classmate na kinausap ni B. GAtes kung paano daw tutulong sa Pinoy na di dadaan sa gobyerno). Sana dumami rin talaga na mga Pinoy ang sumunod sa mission ni Bro Bo. & Chito L. Pero lahat naman na Pinoy can make a difference kahit wala tayong millions sa bulsa.
God Bless!
i believe that, too, tay. di kelangan maraming pera para makatulong…
haylabyu ate Kaye!
salamat din sa binigay mong tip ate Kaye.
kababasa ko lang.
haylabyu too, sis. mali pa rin daw ang sagot ko eh.
padaan uli

love u te
love you too, etchos!
am proud i was part of your first GK building a few years before. hope i could join ulit kung magkaro’nBe. iba yung fulfillment when you take part into something extraordinary for Pinoys in need. kahit nakakapagod masaya!
makikilove love na rin po. love you Be!
ang galing talagang speaker ni Bo Sanchez. nagbabasa ako ng mga books nya.
Mommy Kaye! Sa opis ko na to babasahin at medyo mahaba! Magbabalik ako bukas para magiwan ng bakas. Bakas na nangangamoy pa. Haha.
GK AT BO SANCHEZ… astig.. love ko talaga tong dalawang toh…
mommy kaye sunod na EB.. mga Blogger naman ang BUILDER.. nyehehe
haha! would you believe na naisipan ko na yan…na ang next EB naman sana natin na pangmalakihan e isang cause-oriented na get-together. pero feeling ko mas masayang gawin to kung mas magkakakilala na tayo…
we will have a one-day Tambayani affair before we inaugurate our Tambayani Center…it will be another fun day.